Honestly, I don't think I'm ugly, but I'm not very pretty in my opinion XD. Me and the girl aren't friends now because of it . Now we hate each other, and she called me ___ so I really want to win him back.
It is sad how selfish & inconsiderate people are these days. What I've been trying to do is instead of winning him back, find another guy who is decent & you wouldn't mind going out with.
Girls I'm 21 and remember this age well what advice I'm bout to give you is the advice I wish I was given when I was your age .........guys that age love the chase the idea that you are hard to get if you fight with your friends over guys you like they won't notice you it's better if you just ignore them when you caught wind they like your friends more than you reaction is to ignore them more get your super **** on and act like you don't give a **** and hang with your friends after school, and they will come a running to your guys hate perfectness and neediness and the stuff your doing really makes em think yes I got her attention but i she's not cool she's so needy and waste of time but just having them know u like em gives em proper ego power to act like they the hottest dudes in school... Move on, your so young....haha same age as me.I'm kind of in the same situation.
Actually yesterday I told him I like him because my other friends pushed and pulled me to him! There are more sexy men with better attitudes that us women can find.
Ok tips you want to get his attention whenever you see him just SMILE see if he smiles back take little steps not big ones you need to become his friend first !! Ok so start with settle smiles if he then says hello say hey back if he carries on a conversation act casual as possible get to know each other films music etc ....
Hey, I have the same problem, but my friend is bigger than my crush like 3 years ,and iIjust don't get it ,all of them are the same kind of people ,,ut nwNW Iave a fight with mymy crush,hen she enentersymycrush'sife pretending being his bebest friend,ut i'I'm girl and i Inderstand what she is doing ,,tBTW Ian understand mymy crushrom his eyes and i Iust get that he is not happy with her at all ,,nd i Iold her before if he asasksbout me tell me ,,nd ththehe boy ask about me ,,nd she didn't tell me ,,nd i Ias like "o“OMG " i It want to get this guy back , b, i doI't knw know a 2day was his birthday and i coIld not say a word to him p pleasel me what to do These are enemies in disguise of friends who stab you in the back.
Well my cousin stole mine that I was going to ask out, and she said that their getting married and she not that old enough to neither I'm 13 and she's 14 YuYup, andt makes me mad sad and angry When I told her that I had known, she didn't really want to open up to me about it because she knew I had really liked him for two years, and she had absolutely no interest in him until now, plus she knows how much of a crush I had on him so how does she think it would go away just like that.
I felt so saddened that this had happened but I tried my best to help them out and was glad he never knew I had liked him. Every day I'm reminded of them two because he hangs out with our little group ever lunchtime, they are always holdings hands and everyone stares at them because they are a cute couple.
Though it ***** when she would say “you'll find your knight in shining armor one day” or joke about her stealing my crush, it was like a punch to the stomach but I guess I should just get over its aye. And of coarse he flirts back and IDK what to do...I cry all the time bc of them.
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I was so mad but then I was just cool about it because I know they'll never meet anyways. But they went out and I had never felt so hurt in my life because I thought wow my own BFF steals the person I've loved for more than a year.
Also, I think a guy (like Noah from the movie called The Notebook) who is hopelessly in love with you, would make you much happier. Well I'm having the same problem right now and I felt really love sick after was my friend said to my crush.
The same thing happened to me in the beginning of the school year I met this guy and I liked him then I told my friend and now a few months has passed, and she tells me she likes him but I act like I'm over him but I still love him very much and she's prettier than me but i don't think I'm that ugly. I actually don't want to be her friend because she did this on purpose after we got into a fight she lies and she's snotty I've now her for my entire life but she's making me be her friend by blackmailing me because I USED TO watch *****.
Tommorows the Valentine's Day dance and I have a dress that's really sexy which will get everyone's attention, but she wants to borrow it and if i don't give it to her she'll tell everyone that I watch *****. Mycrush used to like the popular girl but I think he secretly liked me to but my friends the popular girls friend and now I think my crush likes my friend and not be besides she always tried to kiss him after I told her I like him but a few days ago she kissed this other guy I'm 12 and my friends 11 i don't know was to do can someone give me advice please I'm sew sad I could cry the hole day and then suicide help me.
Guys like a girl who can stay cool in uncomfortable situations, just don't turn into a showoff and NEVER have feelings. Right now I like my friends crush and i ally still want to be her friend and if I lose her I also lose someone i've known way longer because apparently she likes the other girl soon much better than me.
Because think about it, say you went out with this boy then broke up with him- he will be out of your life, but your friend would probably still be there to comfort you. I can say from experience that my best friend is very beautiful, so she has always won the boys' hearts as we grew up together.
I would suggest talking to a school counselor or someone you trust about it that can help because she is bullying you by making these threats. You shouldn't have to deal with that type of abuse, and trust me that is abusive- head-game stuff she is pulling on you.
Same except in 6th grade, and it happened last year his name is jack he is one of those guys who join in on the girl conversations, and we have been to school together since PRE school, and he uses to always call me Sam and I loved it when he did because it made me feel special, and I would yell at him like I was made I was one of the few girls that he had a nickname for but no my so called best friend jut had to date him AND THE WORST PART IS THAT SHE KNEW I LIKED HIM sorry I've just been killing to tell someone but now that I realize it I just only like him as a friend this year he's not in my class, so I don't really get to see him that much and I had a dream that I was in love, and now I know what it feels like YOU ONLY LOVE HIM IF WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE GLOWING AROUND HIM thathat'sat I'm doing right now please respond and thanks for a site that u don't have to have a eanail to post love will never happen for me all the boys think I'm a b**** I would always take my anger out on him and scare him I just wish there was a way to ask all the boys in my grade to start oveover, socan be nice I'm a b**** Mybestfriend always tries to make me only love her. I am 13 and so is my best mate and my crush. She always steals my crush and this time I let her have him. Now she only has time for him and thinks she's too good for us/me.
When you go to school, just be all smiles and friendly with everyone, see how that works, after a short while, lots of persons are going to want to be your friend, just try this for 2 weeks and see how it goes, then come back on here and report...remember every day to ... and be cool... Can any1 tell me how to get over the problem it's been 2 days since that happened an I'm so sad I cry more than usual (I'm not a crybaby I just have really strong emotions) I don't know how to get over his m. Please someone tells me how to get over him.
We shook hands and both knew in that exact moment of time that it was going to be us. I heard every story of how he would play guitar for you and how one time he paid for your noodles, but I still let him walk me home after when you had left with some other guy.
We held hands and walked all the way to my door where he kissed me goodnight. He told me his secrets and he asked me his questions and everything was starting to happen.
Yes, our friendship means a lot to me, but when you were standing in the way of my happiness for your fantasy, more problems were bound to arise. Yes, you crossed my mind the first time we made love, but only for a quick second.
Yes, I am a selfish person because I chose love over my friendship. Yes, you are a selfish person because you threatened to remove us both from your life once you found out about us.
While that’s cool to a certain extent, it can get annoying when they start doing things together and don’t invite you. “The situation is uncomfortable,” says licensed clinical psychologist Suzana E. Flores, Pay. D., author of Face hooked: How Facebook Affects Our Emotions, Relationships, and Lives.
“It almost feels like your friend is having an affair because a third person has entered the relationship, and then they end up excluding you from the friendship.” And, just like when someone cheats in a romantic relationship, you can end up feeling angry, sad, and rejected. Unfortunately, experts agree that there’s not a lot you can do to prevent friendship poaching, other than keeping two friends you know would hit it off far away from each other.
And, once two friends meet and hit it off, trying to stop an evolving new friendship can just make you look bad. Flores points out that it's not done intentionally, and it’s only natural that two people you think are great would hit it off.
“Don’t spend a lot of energy getting bitter and frustrated when something doesn’t play out the way you’d hoped,” Anderson says.